Dear you,
The world and people in it are going to judge you no matter what you do. Knowing that prepares you so you can disregard it, then move on to live your life the way you want to. Be aware of your own judgy opinions on actions towards others. When you are aware of your own judgy opinions or actions, you will realize how judgy you have been and then alternate and adjust accordingly.
Leave the judgin to those appointed to the position.
Love, Mamadeus 
